I don’t know where the time has gone. I just put up the new calendar and already January is half over. Before you know it February will have crept up and set Valentine’s Day right at your feet. Where you are in a relationship will determine how you view this heart strewn day. Comfortable in a long term relationship? You might be thinking, “How can I stir things up a bit? Put the spice back into the bedroom.” Maybe you’ve just begun a relationship with someone. You could be worrying about making too big or too little of a deal about Valentine’s Day. Or maybe you’re keeping it simple and doing the single deal. Well don’t you dare forget to treat yourself! So what says, “Happy Valentine’s Day” the best? What shows you put time and thought into your gift? What expresses your feelings with the most passion? Why an orgasm of course! Now I’m not going to allow any of you to just show up in the bedroom and blurt out, “I got you an orgasm for Valentine’s Day!”

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It takes thought, creativity, a bit of planning—you want to show your partner (or yourself!) that they’re the ones being indulged. Here are a few suggestions:

Long Term Couples
Kids, house, job, family—these things will leave anyone exhausted at the end of the day. Take a day (even just an evening) off from life. Find a sleepover for the kids, clean the bills off the dining room table and leave work at a normal time. I’ll let you plan the pre-game stuff (dinner, etc) it’s game time I want to focus on. When was the last time you went down on your partner? Gave them a blow job? Seduced them? Focus completely on your partner. Have they been asking you to talk dirty but you always hesitated? Why not give in for a night and fulfill a fantasy? What about a new position? Location? If you would like to add some va-va-va-voom than slip in one of the following: Tantric Sex Positions Book, edible panties, Lipslick Cinnamon Oral Arousal Gel, Wireless Vibrating Techno Lover, Oral Sex Dice.

The New Couple
Still testing the waters to see what they’re all about? It’s not easy starting a new relationship, especially a new sexual relationship. Will they be turned off by our sexual desires? Are they more of an animal in bed than you’re used to? Longing to be adventurous? If you are feeling more exploratory with your new lover you could give them a pair of vibrating panties; suggesting that they wear them during your romantic dinner out on the town (desert will be had at home, I’m sure!) Being wicked and discreet in public is always titillating! Don’t want to go that route to an orgasm? I have always been a fan of chocolate body art. Paint it on and than lick it off! Everybody’s a winner. Trying to keep it light hearted with your new partner? I Rub My Duckie is the perfect orgasmic gift.

Going Solo
I’m not going to leave anyone out this Valentine’s Day; especially you! Set the mood for yourself by renting or buying an adult DVD. I can’t help but get all giddy when I start watching a movie; things just start to hum (and I don’t just mean by vibrator). For the ladies: Alexa’s Micro Orchid—always one of my top 10. Having a hands free toy means you can be mobile and aroused-- a big plus in my book. Dive into a world of fantasy with an erotic book or this sizzling DVD.For the guys: The Fleshlight has always comes in as a big winner! Sally the Sexy Masturbator is also fun for any guy—not to mention it has one of the best toy names.

Happy Valentine’s Day! Or better yet, anyone know how to make it “National Give an Orgasm Day”?

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