By Mikayla

Everyone knows that Valentine’s Day is the day for lovers. This year, instead of taking your lover to dinner, buying her flowers or lingerie – think a little outside the proverbial chocolate box! Try to imagine her excitement when you present her with a sexy, seductive, arousing intimate gift! Nothing takes a relationship to the next level like a fun, sexy gift!

However, how do you know what to get? There are millions of items to choose from – so how do you know what your lover would like? Do you go the romantic route or the full-out sex toy route? Will she be offended? Thrilled? Excited? Well, read on my friend and you will find tons of sexy ideas to surprise your sweetie this V-Day – and the reward will be worth the effort – I guarantee it!

KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE Perhaps you are in a new relationship and are looking for something just a little sexual. Or, you feel the need to reignite your long term relationship. Whichever your situation, TooTimid’s Romantic gift items are just the ticket to hot lovin’! My number one pick for spicing up the sex life – or taking the relationship to the next level – would be the KAMA SUTRA BEDSIDE BOX! This elegant glass and wood bedside box contains samplings of some of Kama Sutra’s best products – edible honey dust, Oils of Love, Lubricating Love Liquid and a beautifully scented Votive Candle. Presenting your honey with this seductive sampling will be just the sweet treat she is looking for. Why buy chocolates when you can get her the gift of romance? If your honey really loves her chocolate why not give her some – but switch things up a bit. Kama Sutra also makes a wonderful LOVER’S PAINTBOX KIT – where the paints are made of decadent CHOCOLATES! Complete with white, dark and milk chocolate “paints” and a paintbrush for application – this lover’s paint kit will let her have her chocolate and eat it too. Paint her, paint you – whatever you do it is sure to be a hot, night of FUN dipped in chocolate!

Have a Sexy and Fulfilling Valentine's Day with your Lover!

Perhaps you thought of bringing your honey to a spa for the night but you just couldn’t spend the money. Spas are wonderful ways to relax and reconnect. So, if you can’t afford the spa – why not bring the spa home? That’s right – TooTimid has many products that will allow you to pamper your honey from head to toe – on a pauper’s budget! First, indulge her with a warm bath using the TREASURES OF THE SEA SPA SALT KIT. She will emerge with soft, sensuously scented skin – and most of all will be relaxed. You can then usher her to her own private massage using one of our many, premium MASSAGE OILS – such as KHEPRA, KAMA SUTRA MASSAGE OIL or even BODY BUTTER. After this one-two punch of relaxation she will be putty in your hands!

If you want to explore new possibilities with your lover – why not try one of the many fantastic COUPLE’S GAMES? With these games there is no winner or loser – you both will win when you reconnect with your lover. Explore the wonders of intimate sex through the guidance of the Kama Sutra when you play the KAMA SUTRA LOVER’S GAME. Or, arrange for a romantic rendezvous with your special someone while playing ROMANTIC RENDEVOUS! Let your lover know you are wild for her – get her the HEART'S ARE WILD board game where there is more to do than just roll the dice! Complete with blindfold, massage oil and feather tickler – this game is sure to bring you CLOSER together!

KINKY FOR BEGINNERS

If you are looking to spice things up in your bedroom – but you are not into wearing latex body suits – TooTimid has the solution for you! Being a little more aggressive – or submissive – in the bedroom could really open up new worlds for you and your lover. What better time to experiment with such things than on Valentine’s Day. To begin your new endeavor, try kinking things up a bit with a simple BLINDFOLD. Just taking away your lover’s sense of sight can bring your lovemaking to a whole, new level. If you are daring enough, try some HANDCUFFS or LIGHT RESTRAINTS. My favorites for beginners are the TIE THE KNOT KIT – this white, soft, restraint kit has everything you need to softly restrain your lover!

If you are a little more advanced in the way of bondage play – then why not step things up with a full restraint system. I proudly recommend the BEDSPREAD RESTRAINTS, RACHEL’S THIGH CUFFS or THE DOORJAM CUFFS. Any or all of these restraints will let your lover know that you plan to seduce her (or him) and tease her until she begs to be let go! For the ultimate in kinky gifts, indulge both of you with a LOVE SWING (or PLEASURE SWING)! Imagine your lover swinging gently before you – with her sacred spaces exposed for the taking! Love Swings are an indulgence that any lover would be glad to get as a gift!

Kinky doesn’t necessarily mean restraints and blindfolds – it could also mean different sensations. Changing any sensation can really add new life to your bedroom. For example, a WARMING LUBRICANT can heat things up in ways you can only imagine until you have experienced it! HOT STUFF WARMING MASSAGE OILS or HEATING LOTION are two great products that will add the heat to your massage time! If you want to get a little more….intimate with your sensation lotion, TooTimid also has quite a few warming or edible lubricants – such as THINK PINK! ORAL SEX LOTION, SPANISH FLY or SEX TARTS EDIBLE LUBE. Any or all of these suggestions are sure to bring your oral lovin’ time to a new level!

LEARNING TO LOVE…..

Perhaps you have tried some products but just don’t feel that intimate connection with your lover. TooTimid has many educational videos that are sure to not only educate and give you ideas on how to connect with your lover – but they are also erotic to watch together. Particularly, the LOVING SEX series offers couples information and illustration – provided by real life couples. These films have explicit sex scenes – but it is NOT porn. Some great ones to start off with are the SEXUAL SATISFACTION series or the KAMA SUTRA series Vol 1, Vol 2, Vol 3.

There is also a plethora of other options from: NINA HARTLEY’S GUIDE TO DOUBLE PENETRATION, GUIDE TO ANAL SEX, GUIDE TO BETTER CUNNILINGUS – even better, MASTURBATION! Any topic that your heart’s desire is covered in TooTimid’s sampling of erotic and educational videos.

If you are looking for something a little more….hard core….cause after all, a picture is worth a thousand words – and what better picture of fun sex is there than adult DVDs? TooTimid has a gigantic sampling of all the hottest ADULT DVDs – VIVID, ADAM & EVE, WICKED, DIGITAL PLAYGROUND – there are samplings from all the best adult studios! If you want to spice things up in your bedroom – get your girl or guy a hot, sexy adult DVD!

If you are concerned that your lover won’t take favorably to an Adult DVD – then I suggest easing her in with a film that would appeal to a woman. Yes, I said it – there are porns available that are a little more….interesting and appeal to a woman’s sense of romance. Specifically, CANDIDA ROYALLES (ex porn star turned director) has tried to infuse her hot, adult DVDs with a storyline and some romance. She definitely knows what a woman likes – so why not try one of her titles? I can recommend FEMME, CARRIBEAN HEAT or URBAN HEAT. This way you can have your porn and your lover too!

Another director who is really trying to turn adult entertainment into more than just naked couples having hot sex is PAUL THOMAS. His films are often full length features with complex and even – dare I say – interesting story lines. For example, THE VISION or TO DIE FOR are a perfect match up of Thomas’ skill as a director and his reminiscence of what it was like to be a porn star in the 70’s and 80’s. This mixture of knowledge and good directing truly make his films…..different!

GETTING HOOOOOOOOT IN HERE!

OK, I know, you want some suggestions on things that will make her scream and call your name, right? Well, be patient my friend, I have saved the best for last. If you are sure that your honey would be comfortable with a sex toy – and really, all women should have at least 1 toy – then I have a smorgasbord of orgasm inducing toys for you to choose from! Don’t worry guys – you will still be able to make your girlfriend moan – these items just add a little something to the play time!

If I have said it a million times, I am going to say it a million and one…..if your partner does NOT own a bullet – she has GOT to have one. BULLETS are truly the best little gadget for the money – hands down (pun intended!) If you want to ease your lover into toys, and want something that is truly multi-purpose – then you have to indulge in a BULLET!

My top picks are: THE STANDARD SILVER BULLET OR DUAL BULLETS – cause you can use them ALL OVER your body and hers, BLISSFUL BERRIES (oh so Valentine’s Day appropriate), DUAL BULLET VIBE (for 2 kinds of sensations), or a REMOTE CONTROL BULLET (for fun during dinner that only YOU guys know about!) Any of these little pleasure pointers can be used on YOU during oral, on HER during oral or BETWEEN you during sex – what is better than that for your buck???

If you want something that will be different and stimulating – then try a CLITORAL PUMP! I know, you want to know if pumps really work and what they do. Well, a clitoral pump works by situating itself over the clitoris and when it is pumped up and the vibrations are on the clitoris engorges with blood and is tantalized. This is a great way to get her primed and ready for lovemaking! They can be used for foreplay or before foreplay and during sex too. I would recommend to you THE CLIT KISSER, CLITORAL PUMP or the PUCKER UP PUMP.

Now guys, don’t get jealous – TooTimid has a bunch of pumps for your little man (OK, GIGANTIC MAN) too. PENIS PUMPS are NOT just for erectile dysfunction – they can add a little something extra (where you didn’t think there was room for any) during your foreplay or sex play. Pumps work the same way as for women, only men’s pumps come with a penile sleeve so you get a suction action combined with stimulation and vibration! What could be better than that guys? I would suggest a novelty pump for fun and frolic purposes – such as THE GRAND PRIX STROKER or THE FIREMAN’S PUMP. Hey guys, don’t knock it until you have tried it – the best gift you can give to your honey is MORE of yourself!!!

If you have always dreamed of seeing your lovely lady pleasuring herself with a sex toy – don’t fret – help is on the way. Giving your lover the gift of a vibrator says 2 important things about you: 1) You are not intimidated by a toy (and you shouldn’t be) and 2) you care about your woman’s pleasure! Giving the gift of a vibrator really does send the message that you find your woman hot and would love to watch her pleasure herself – or that you want to give her something for those nights without you. Either way, it is a win-win situation. I would suggest the following vibrators for first time or novice use: ANY FUN FACTORY VIBE (these are so sleek and nice and non-intimidating); VELVET TOUCH, JILL KELLY’S LIGHT UP VIBE (great for undercover action); TEMPTRESS EROTIC WAVE, or ANY NATURAL CONTOURS VIBES (made for women, by women). I am sure whatever you choose – and there are SO MANY to choose from – your lover will thank you over and over and over……

If your woman has a few vibes then step it up with a dual action. Ok guys, I am going to let you in on a woman’s secret – women LOVE insertion with CLITORAL stimulation! Yes, it is true, and I am afraid that your penis alone can’t deliver it – but you can use your fingers or a toy to help her along – remember that. DUAL ACTIONS have the best of both worlds for your lover – insertion AND clitoral pleasure – and this is surely the fastest way to her orgasm! I have MANY favorites in this category, but I will just name a few: THE BUMPY BUNNY, I-VIBE, CLASSIC RABBIT, GLITTERING ROTATING G-SPOT, DOUBLE IMPACT CLEAR DUAL or JENNA’S BEAVER! Really, get your lover a dual, she will LOVE you for it!

Now, if you are really on a quest to outdo yourself this Valentine’s Day, why not go on a quest for your lover’s G-Spot? Yes, it is real and YES you can find it. You can do this with fingers or you can indulge her with a special G-SPOT TOY! These toys are made especially to stimulate her special spot. I can attest to the wonderful powers of the following toys: JESSICA’S STROBING PROBE, MOONSTONE VIBE, TERA PATRICK’S RIBBED G or THE MINI G-SPOT. Any or all of these toys are sure to help your lover find her explosive G-SPOT orgasm – and guys, that is a sight to behold!

PLEASURE IS IN THE PICKING

Of course, this is just a small sampling of items that TooTimid has available for you and your lover. You may want to indulge in a COUPLE’S TOY – such as a vibrating COCK RING such as the BERRILICIOUS COUPLE’S AROUSER or THE DIVING DOLPHIN. Or, you may be looking to grant your lover’s fantasy of having ANAL sex. Both men and women enjoy anal stimulation – so perhaps you could venture into anal land by purchasing a VIBRATING BUTT PLUG or a BEGINNER’S ANAL KIT.

If you just don’t know what to get – then err on the side of a GIFT CERTIFCATE! Yes, TooTimid has gift cards too – and a wish list to boot. If you know your honey frequents TooTimid, then check to see if she has a gift list – and get something from it. Nothing says “I Love You” like letting your lover pick his or her own gift!

The point is, whatever you choose you can find the perfect, sexy something for your lover! Man or woman, married or dating, new relationship or long time lovers – TooTimid has the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your special someone. Just thinking about getting a sexy surprise for your honey is enough to revamp even the most desensitized sex life!

I hope that you have found these ideas helpful – and I wish you the sexiest and happiest Valentine’s Day ever!


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