A Complete Beginner's Guide To Buying Dildos | Different Types of Dildos

Ever walked into a sex toy shop (or scrolled online) and felt completely overwhelmed by the rainbow of shapes, sizes, and textures? You’re not alone.

From lifelike silicone studs to sleek glass designs, the world of dildos is vast—and that’s a very good thing. Variety exists because no two bodies (or fantasies) are exactly the same. Some crave realism, others want artistic shapes, and some just want a toy that hits that perfect spot.

This guide breaks down the most popular types of dildos, what makes each one unique, and how to choose the best one for you. Think of it as your friendly, judgment-free treasure map to finding your perfect pleasure partner.

Understanding the Variety of Dildos

Dildos can be realistic, playful, artistic, or somewhere in between—but every design has a purpose. Below, you’ll find the main types and what they’re best for.

Dildos With Testicles

Some dildos include testicles at the base. While they might look decorative, they serve two important purposes:

• Realism: For those who enjoy lifelike details, the visual and tactile experience feels extra authentic.

• Safety: When used anally, testicles act as a built-in stopper to prevent the toy from going too deep.

Bonus: when the base presses against your body during thrusting or riding, it adds a little extra stimulation where you least expect it.

Real Skin Dildos

Also called realistic dildos, these toys are designed with details like veins, ridges, and natural shapes. Their biggest appeal is the material—usually high-quality silicone or “real skin” blends that mimic the feel of an actual penis.

If you’re looking for the most true-to-life penetration experience, start here. They’re body-safe, durable, and easy to clean.

Suction Cup Dildos

Suction cup dildos stick to flat surfaces, letting you ride hands-free. They’re perfect for solo play or a creative couples session.

• Where to use them: Bathroom tiles, headboards, kitchen chairs, or even the shower wall.

• Pro tip: Always use plenty of lube and check the surface is secure before hopping on.

Read our article "Best Places to Stick Your Suction Cup Dildo"

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Glass Dildos

Smooth, firm, and stunning—glass dildos are as much art as they are pleasure tools. Made from durable borosilicate glass (the same material as Pyrex), they’re built to last forever and are totally body-safe.

Why people love them:

• They're non-porous, hypoallergenic, and super easy to clean.

• They hold temperature beautifully - try warming them up or cooling them down for  sensual temperature play. 

• Their firmness makes them ideal for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. 

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Squirting Dildos

If realism is your thing, squirting dildos take it to the next level. These toys mimic ejaculation using a built-in pump or syringe that lets you “cum on command.”

• Why they're fun: They make roleplay feel extra real and add a playful edge to solo or partner sessions.

• Pro Tip: Pair with a “splooge juice” lube that mimics the look, feel & even smell of semen, for the most realistic effect.

Browse Our Top-Selling Squirting Dildos:

• 7.5 Inch Long Cum On Command Squirting Dildo
• 8 Inch Hands-Free Squirting Dildo With Balls
• 9 Inch Long Hollow Squirting Strap-On Dildo

Strap-on Dildos

Perfect for couples who like to switch up control, strap-on dildos are designed to be worn with a harness.

• Why people love them: They allow penetrative play between any genders, give the wearer power, and open up new sensations for both partners.

Many harnesses even include pockets for bullets or vibes to stimulate the wearer while they play.

Browse Our Top-Selling Strap-On Dildos:

• Pegging Strap-On Dildo For Power Dynamics
• Silicone G-Spot Dildo & Harness Set
• Wireless Strapless Strap-On For Lesbians

Vibrating Dildos

The best of both worlds: penetration and vibration. Vibrating dildos give you that satisfying fullness with the added thrill of buzzes, pulses, or patterns.

Controls range from simple buttons to wireless remotes—or even app controls that let your partner tease you from across the room (or across the country).

Why try one: They’re versatile—great for internal stimulation, clit play, or couples who like mixing things up.

Recommended Dildo: XL & Thick Vibrating Dildo For Vaginal Stretching

Double Ended Dildos

Also known as "double dongs”, these are long, flexible dildos that allow two people to enjoy penetration at once—or for one person to experiment with double penetration.

Jelly Dildos

Made from jelly rubber, jelly dildos are known for being affordable, colorful, and flexible—perfect for beginners or anyone looking to experiment without breaking the bank.

They come in a range of firmness levels, so it’s worth knowing what kind of feel you’re after:

• Firm jelly: Holds its shape better and provides more intense, targeted stimulation.

• Soft jelly: Squishier, more flexible, and forgiving—ideal for those who prefer a gentler touch or are new to penetration play.

The Safety Standards of Modern Jelly Dildos

When jelly toys first hit the market years ago, they got a bit of a bad reputation. Older versions sometimes contained chemicals like phthalates, which raised safety concerns.

The good news? Modern jelly toys have come a long way. Most are now made from non-toxic, phthalate-free materials that are safe for the body when properly cared for. Still, it’s smart to double-check product descriptions before buying—especially if you’re shopping from a new brand or online marketplace.

Besides being safer than ever, today’s jelly toys offer both firm and soft options so you can match your toy’s texture to your desired sensation—whether that’s deep, firm pressure or a soft, flexible stretch.

Pro Tip: Always use condoms if you’re sharing your jelly toys or unsure about the material’s exact composition. It’s the easiest way to keep play clean and safe.

Silicone Dildos

The gold standard of sex toy materials—non-porous, hypoallergenic, and buttery smooth. Silicone dildos are body-safe, flexible, and easy to clean, making them a favorite for both beginners and pros.

They come in every shape and color imaginable—from sleek and minimal to textured, curved, or even glow-in-the-dark. And with proper care, a high-quality silicone dildo can last a lifetime.

Simply wash with warm water and mild soap (or boil for a full sterilization if it’s non-vibrating), dry thoroughly, and store in a cool, clean spot.

Note: Only use water-based lube with silicone toys. Silicone lube can damage the surface over time.

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Cyberskin Dildos

If realism is what you’re after, Cyberskin dildos come closest to the real deal. Made from soft, stretchy TPE, they’re designed to look, feel, and even move like real skin.

Cyberskin naturally warms to your body temperature and holds that heat, creating an incredibly lifelike, skin-on-skin sensation. The surface is smooth yet slightly tacky, adding to its realistic touch.

Because the material is delicate, Cyberskin toys need extra care:

• Clean gently with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner.

• Dry completely and store separately to prevent material reactions.

• Dust with renewal powder (like Fleshlight powder or cornstarch) after cleaning to maintain softness.

Pro Tip: Stick to water-based lube—silicone or oil-based lubes can degrade the material.

FAQs About Dildos

• What makes a dildo different from other toys?
  Dildos are penetration-focused toys designed without motors or vibration functions. They offer full control over speed, depth, and angle, making them ideal for users who prefer manual stimulation and customizable pressure.
  

• What kind of lube should I use?
  Water-based lubricants are the most versatile and safe for all materials. Silicone-based lubricants are also suitable but should never be used with silicone dildos, as they can damage the surface. Always check compatibility with your toy’s material before use.
  

• How should I clean and maintain a dildo?
  Clean your dildo before and after every use with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Non-vibrating toys made of silicone, glass, or stainless steel can be boiled for full sterilization. Ensure the toy is completely dry before storing it.
  

• Are there any safety considerations to keep in mind?
  Yes. Always choose toys made from body-safe materials such as medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, or stainless steel. Avoid excessive force during penetration, and use condoms if sharing with a partner to maintain hygiene and reduce infection risk.
  

• What is the best way to store dildos?
  Store your dildo in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Use a cloth bag or toy storage case to prevent dust accumulation and material degradation. Keep toys separated to avoid chemical reactions between different materials.
  

• Can dildos help me learn more about my body?
  Absolutely! Dildos are one of the best tools for sexual self-discovery. They help you explore what kinds of pressure, angles, and sensations turn you on—without any pressure or performance expectations. Think of it as pleasure and self-awareness rolled into one.
  

Final Thoughts

The world of dildos is playful, diverse, and full of discovery. Whether you’re drawn to the lifelike feel of silicone, the firmness of glass, or the creative fun of a squirting or double-ended toy, there’s something out there that’ll fit your body and your fantasies perfectly.

The key is to explore at your own pace. Start with what excites you, experiment with materials and shapes, and always prioritize comfort and safety.

Because at the end of the day, your dildo isn’t just a toy—it’s a tool for self-connection, confidence, and pure pleasure.

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