How to Use a Bullet Vibrator: 19 Expert Tips & Techniques

Everybody, absolutely everybody, should have a bullet vibrator. Why is this? Simply put, a bullet is one of the original "go-to" sex toys ever created, and the absolute most versatile toy that you can have in your arsenal of pleasure items!

If you do not know what a bullet vibrator is, let me explain. It is a small, cylindrical, usually “bullet” shaped vibrator. There are many variations – smooth ones, textured ones, multi-speed ones – but the concept is the same for each: small, portable, versatile and powerful! 

1. Bring in Vibrations During Penetrative Sex

2. Use With a Clit Cream

3. Solo Masturbation

4. On-The-Go Playtime

Since bullets are battery operated, super small, and very powerful, they are perfect for long car rides or spontaneous play time – and they can be kept in your glove compartment or bag for whenever the need may hit!

5. Gender Inclusive Stimulation

A bullet vibrator is that they are universal and can increase pleasure for absolutely anyone! Bullets are great for couples of any gender or sex because they are small enough not to intrude on the intimacy between you and your partner, but give that extra OOMPH when needed.

6. Vibrations During Oral Sex

Try teasing your lover into a frenzy with your tongue and then kick up the pleasure 10 notches by adding a small bullet with lots of direct clitoral power! Or insert the bullet for internal G-spot stimulation while you lick and suck your partner's clitoris! Oh yeah, they'll be yelling your name in no time! 

7. Penis Stimulation During Oral Sex

Oh, and don’t forget that you can use a bullet to increase oral sex sensations during a blowjob too! Besides stimulating the balls and the shaft, you can use it DURING oral sex. If you have a bullet with a lower speed you can “cheek it” and give your partner the buzzing BJ they won't forget. By "cheek it" I mean literally put it in your mouth, shove it into your cheek like you would if you put an ice cube in your mouth during oral sex.

8. Behind the Knees

The back of the knees are typically a very sensitive erogenous zone that oftentimes get overlooked. Imagine trailing kisses up and down your lover’s thighs and then gently buzzing the backs of their knees!

9. Back of the Neck

Speaking of erogenous zones...have you ever had a lover kiss you on the nape of your neck? Did you feel the chills when they did? Now, imagine how a slight vibration would feel there? Don’t neglect the back of the neck!

10. Surprising Sensations

Another incredible way to enhance foreplay is to blindfold your lover and tease them all over their body with a powerful vibrating bullet! Your partner will be quivering with anticipation and heightened arousal as they wait for your next touch or kiss, or the buzz of the bullet vibrator!

11. Internal Stimulation

Bullets are thought mostly to be external toys, but really they can be inserted vaginally as well. Oftentimes, a bullet vibrator can be inserted just a bit – around the G-spot area – to add a little buzz to playtime or foreplay. It is especially sensual if your partner does not want the experience of full insertion.

12. The Curve of the Butt

The backside is a very sensitive place and nothing can be more arousing than sending kisses down the spine while your lover is on their stomach, and then gently buzzing their backside with a bullet! Running it between their cheeks can be quite the thrill too! Using a bullet vibrator that doesn't have a chord attached with a remote, such as the Silver Bullet shown below, allows you to be more versatile with your play!

13. Tease the Breasts

The nipples are not the only important part of your partner's chest. The breasts as a whole can be very, very sensitive. So while you are teasing the nipples (whether on yourself or on your partner) don’t forget to rub the bullet vibrator around the underside or tops of the breasts too!

14. Inner Thighs

Delaying the moment is a fantastic way to build up arousal! Spending time running a bullet up and down your lover's inner thighs will have them bucking and panting wanting more! Just remember not to neglect that special space where the inner thigh meets the pubic area!

15. Tickle The Tummy

The stomach is another much neglected erogenous zone and nothing says “feel me now” like a little buzzing action right around the belly button! Give your lover some gentle kisses followed by some light buzzing and they will be putty in your vibrating hands.

16. Anal Rim Stimulation

Remember, even if you aren't inserting a toy anally, never go from anal to vaginal play! Put a dab of cooling lubricant, lick the TooTimid version shown below on your bullet. Turn on the vibrations and rub them against yourself anally as you would if someone was giving you a rim job. (Do not insert the bullet.) Use another toy or hands free clit vibrator to massage against your clit while you are rubbing the vibrating bullet anally for even more pleasure!

17. Stimulate the Penis Shaft

Imagine your lover's surprise when you are giving them some oral attention and all of a sudden an incredible new sensation joins your mouth! When you run a bullet up and down your partner's shaft oh, so gently, they will be writhing in pure delight!

18. Buzz the Balls

Do not think that bullets (or any vibrator) are just for clitoral stimulation. No! Adding a little buzz to the testicles can be extremely arousing during foreplay or sex. Just make sure to start slow. The testicles can be sensitive so a lower setting is great to start!

19. Nipple Play

What can I say? A majority of people can have great pleasure and even orgasm from nipple stimulation, so why not add a little intensity to the mix? This erogenous area is packed with sensitive nerve endings, so try circling your partner's nipples with a bullet vibrator in between loving licks and sucks to bring nipple play to a whole new high!

Now that you've read about some tips, feel free to watch our sex expert Angela's video for even more tips on how to use a vibrating bullet! Plus, you'll get a chance to see her favorite bullet vibrators and lubes, check it out below:

How Do You Use Your Bullet Vibrator? Let Us Know Below In The Comments!