5 Things She Can Do To Be Better In Bed

Hopefully, we all want to be the best lovers we can be. The goal should be to grow as sexual partners, to increase our personal knowledge of each other, and to learn all the ins and outs of what makes our partner have the most pleasure. While, obviously, this is personal and specific to each couples, there are certain things that she can do in general to be better in bed. Here are just 5 of those things.

1. EXPERIMENT / BE OPEN
I asked my boyfriend what he thought makes me good in bed. He said many things, specific to us, but one very general one that I believe wholeheartedly is that if a woman is willing to experiment or be open to new experiences that she will be a much better lover than a woman who is unwilling to try new things. Especially in longer term relationships where things tend to get redundant without change. Both women and men have fantasies or sexual desires that they may want to try. If she is willing to at least entertain experimenting than she is already ahead of any women who are unwilling to.

2. INITIATE SEX
If you are willing to initiate sex it automatically puts you head and shoulders above those gals who always wait for the man to make the first move. Men love feeling like the object of your desire, and sometimes tire of being the one to initiate the sex. When you do it he knows you want and desire him and will put him into overdrive before you even really get into the actual sex. You will become a lover that he absolutely wants to surrender to.

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3. MORE ORAL / PERFECT ORAL
Big surprise that men love oral sex. Shamefully, there are too many women who do not enjoy giving oral sex to their partner. So, it stands to reason that a woman who is an enthusiastic oral practitioner would be considered good in bed. Not only that, but if she is willing to really perfect the art of the blowjob then she is way, way, way ahead of even those other oral sex giving ladies. Make oral sex a regular part of your sexual life, don’t make him beg for it, initiate it and honestly enjoy it and you will be the lover of his dreams.

4. ENJOY HERSELF
Men absolutely love a partner who is obviously enjoying sex with them. Being expressive with movements, sounds and moans all indicate to him just how enjoyable sex is for her. When a woman doesn’t indicate her involvement in the act it can be more of a turn off than anything, so when she is clearly and undeniably enjoying sex it will amp him up and make him even more aroused. Furthermore, being verbal whether with moans or even naughty expressions or downright dirty talk can make all the difference.

5. BE CONFIDENT
The absolute most important thing a woman can do to be better in bed is to be confident. This means confident with her body (no matter how she really feels about her tummy pooch), confident in approaching sex, confident in initiating sex and confident while having sex. Confidence is the sexiest thing about a woman! A confident woman is ten times more attractive than a not-so-confident woman. So, if you automatically want to become a better lover, put all of your insecurities away and come to the bedroom absolutely confident and you will blow his socks off!

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