Best Tips to Give Her an Erotic Massage

Did you read the title of this article and think that "erotic massage" was synonymous with "fingering?" Well, you would be wrong if you thought this! Erotic massage is just as the name implies - a massage that is of the erotic, personal, and, sensual nature. Can this massage elicit an orgasm? Yes, sure, but even if it doesn't it is designed to feel amazing. Is this massage supposed to be relaxing? Well, probably not since it is on her private parts. If you are curious about erotic massage, read on for some techniques to get started.

The "V" Technique

A woman's vagina is encased in two lovely sets of lips - the inner and outer labia. These lovely lips will swell when she is aroused and caressing them can be very erotic and sensual for her. One technique for doing this is the "V" technique. You can do this with one or more fingers on each hand. She will lay on her back, her legs loosely together (not spread) and you will need to be sitting by her knees. You then take your fingers (preferably 2 from each hand) and beginning at the top - pubic mound - you will rub downward from the outer sides to the center - in a "V" shape. Then repeat. The idea is to massage the area around her lips, the part that forms the natural "V" of her pussy.

Thighs Matters

The inner thigh is a very sensitive place to massage. If you have ever had a standard massage and they rub there you may have noticed that you get a little thrill! Well, when the person whom you are intimate with rubs there you should get a BIG thrill. The woman should lay on her back and spread her legs comfortably (she can bend her knees a bit if desired). Then, using massage oil, caress her inner thighs working outward and then inward toward her vagina. Small circles and light pressure would be best here. When you arrive at her inner crease, rub both sides simultaneously so that her lips sort of move and open gently. This motion will activate her engorgement and start arousal.

Backwards Booty

If you want to include more than just her pussy into the mix, for example, her ass cheeks as well, a good method for doing this is to have her lay on her stomach, spread her legs fairly wide. Then lotion up her ass and thighs and concentrate on rubbing her butt cheeks, inner thighs, and then her pussy lips as well. Sort of dipping your hands down her thighs and as you rub pull her pussy lips apart. Then repeat. Ass cheeks, inner thighs, pull her lips apart. You can even rub a bit down to her knees if you want. Keep stimulating her and never stop the motions until you are ready to move on.

The Pull And Spread Method

Eventually the massage is going to take a more directly intimate route, and this is where you will directly stimulate and massage her inner and outer labia through a mixture of pulling and spreading of her vaginal lips. Have her lay on her back and spread her legs slightly. You can work up to this with the other techniques, specifically the "V" technique. You will gently grab her inner labia and pull them out, twisting them gently in your fingers and spreading her open. Then release them, gently massage them and, repeat. 

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Direct Vaginal/ Clit Massage

The coup de gras of the erotic massage is undoubtedly when you get to massage her internally, or directly around the vaginal canal. Note, this is not fingering per se. While you are going to insert your finger into her vagina, you are not going to thrust in and out, but instead, massage her inner canal by twisting your fingers around. Once again, you can and should use other methods along with this method. Combine the vaginal mound "V" technique with this one. Once she is ready - wet and excited - you will want to place one fingertip inside of her vagina. Rub the outer circle of her opening. Slowly. Take your time. This is not a race. Then, insert another finger inside, but keep them shallow - no more than half a finger depth inside. You want to turn your fingers around while they are inside of her and stretch them out a bit as well so that she feels the pressure of the massage. Now is the time - if you are going for it - for you to add in clitoral massage. Yes, finally! Rub her clitoris slowly and steadily until she comes to her climax!

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