7 Sexy Ways to Turn Your Partner On When They're Blindfolded
If you have never blindfolded your partner during sex then it is something you must try. Being blindfolded is a total sensory experience that will bring every fiber of your being into high alert which causes all the pleasure to be heightened in ways you have never imagined. It is also fun for the blindfolder as they can tease and please their partner into a frenzy with surprising ease. So, if you want to try something a little bit naughty – then try these tips!
1. Taste Bud Test
If you're new to blindfold play, it's best to introduce the blindfold to your partner in a way that helps build trust. So, the perfect place to begin is to blindfold her and do a sexy food taste test. This doesn't even have to be in the bedroom, it can just be used to ease your way into more fun with the blindfold.
Tantalize your partner's taste buds with things like chocolate, strawberries, honey and champagne. If you're planning on moving things to the bedroom, you could even buy some flavored lube for your partner to suck off your finger.
2. Temperature Play
When your partner can’t see what naughty little tricks you are planning you can engage with any number of sexual extras! Take, for example, ice cubes or hot wax. Imagine your lover lying on the bed, blindfolded, and you are kissing, caressing, and warming them up only to take an ice cube and drag it down their entire body. *Shiver* I felt it, did you? Then you can follow up that coldness with the heat of your breath and tongue. Wherever the ice goes, you follow along.
The same can be done with some sex wax (special temperature controlled wax for the body). You can drip little bits on the nipples, thighs and even clitoris and as it cools it hardens – giving the most delightful little sensations. Either hot or cold sensations will deliver an erotic charge!
3. Light Touches
When we take away any of our 5 main senses – touch, taste, hearing, smelling or seeing – our other senses work overtime to compensate for the one that is missing. So, when you are blindfolded, and therefore cannot see, your body will use the other senses to try and figure out what is going on.
One of the most erotic things you can do to a blindfolded person is to ask them NOT to move (or you could tie them up with some light bondage) and then caress them all over, lightly, teasingly. Run your fingertips over their arm, lightly, and then belly, then maybe their cheek. They can’t see where you are going to touch next, so vary your location often. Use light touches, the kind that gives goosebumps. This will send your partner's entire body into “question” mode – “when and how and where will they touch me next?”
4. Heavy Breathing
A very simple, yet very effective way to drive your lover crazy with desire is to simply breathe on your partner. Everywhere. Every part of them. Breathe into the ears, gently, and kiss their earlobes. Breathe onto their neck before a quick nibble. Tease their nipples with flicks of your tongue followed by hot breath. Go between their legs and let them FEEL you there – breathing only – making your partner almost beg for more. Oh yes, this is a very effective way to get them doing some heavy breathing of their own.
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5. Can You Hear The Buzz?
As I mentioned earlier, when we cannot see our hearing becomes much more acute. Therefore, if we HEAR something familiar – like the buzzing of a vibrator – our body begins to anticipate that activity and becomes aroused.
There is nothing quite like being blindfolded and hearing your favorite vibrator near your ear and then feeling it, finally, on your nipples, thighs, belly or vaginal area. Playing with a sex toy is fun no matter what – but this method will bring it to a whole, new level! There is something extra naughty about being blindfolded AND teased with a toy.
6. Turn It Into a Restraint
Alright, so this tip is for those of you who are looking to bring more BDSM play into the bedroom. Of course, you must have consent from all parties first but you can really spice things up by taking control and using the blindfold as a restraint.
Take your time to slowly remove the blindfold, then tune into your dominant side to turn your partner around and use the blindfold as a restraint to tie them up tight. This can easily be included into the roleplay scenario which brings me to tip #7.
7. Add Roleplay To The Mix
When your eyes are closed, it is easy for the imagination to run wild and start picturing your wildest fantasies. This is your chance to lean into that, using a blindfold is the perfect opportunity to bring in some role play!
Maybe you can create a sexy backstory behind why your partner is blindfolded. Another idea is to change up your voice, deepen it or try an accent to sound like a different person. There are lots of possibilities so do your best your imagination take the wheel here so you can have some fun.
wow about love making sounds lovely soooo muchhardly wait to try the the blind fold m 89 wish i would of known all this was married for 50 yrs very boring love making pls keep this private thanks
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