Blowjob Etiquette: 11 Tips To Give The Best Blow Ever!
If you have found yourself a little nervous about receiving a blowjob and want to make sure you are doing everything right, then you are in the right place! Here are the top prep tips, and other things to keep in mind to bring for a great fellatio experience!
11 Do's & Don'ts To Help You Master Your Next BJ:
1. Do Prep & Cleanse Yourself
Take a shower or wash yourself as best you are able to (if you only have access to a sink) before your next blowjob. MANY people find the smell of their partner's private areas to be intoxicating.
Unless your partner has expressed this to you, it's a good rule of thumb to simply cleanse yourself prior to receiving oral sex.
Unless your partner has expressed this to you, it's a good rule of thumb to simply cleanse yourself prior to receiving oral sex.
2. Do Manscape
Do you prefer bald, trimmed, grown out?
We all have personal preferences and there is no right or wrong way to go about how we like to keep ourselves and how we prefer our partner's body-scaping to be.
If you are in a trusting sexual relationship with your partner, don't be too shy to ask your partner if they have a preference.
We all have personal preferences and there is no right or wrong way to go about how we like to keep ourselves and how we prefer our partner's body-scaping to be.
If you are in a trusting sexual relationship with your partner, don't be too shy to ask your partner if they have a preference.
3. Do Focus on the Tip if You're Nervous About Gagging
When giving a blowjob, it is very common to experience some type of gagging.
First, you do NOT have to be able to deepthroat to perform a great blowjob! It's important that you feel comfortable. Focus on massaging the tip of your partner's penis with your lips and tongue.
If you are new to giving oral, go slow. Swirl your tongue around it. Lick the underside and flick your tongue around on it. Suck it in with some suction power.
Experiment with just getting used to putting it in your mouth and pay attention to your partner's responses to see what they enjoy.
First, you do NOT have to be able to deepthroat to perform a great blowjob! It's important that you feel comfortable. Focus on massaging the tip of your partner's penis with your lips and tongue.
If you are new to giving oral, go slow. Swirl your tongue around it. Lick the underside and flick your tongue around on it. Suck it in with some suction power.
Experiment with just getting used to putting it in your mouth and pay attention to your partner's responses to see what they enjoy.
4. Do Use Your Hands
If you are prone to gagging, and you want to stop, then let your hands help!
If you slick up your hands with spit and slide them around the penis while you are sucking and licking the head, you will give your partner more stimulation!
If you slick up your hands with spit and slide them around the penis while you are sucking and licking the head, you will give your partner more stimulation!
5. Do Go Down Further Slowly if You're Giving
Find a position that is comfortable for you to be able to take in a little more of your partner's penis into your mouth. Then retract.
Don't force yourself to really take it in, just go slowly and get used to how it feels sliding in and out of your mouth. If you find yourself gagging or uncomfortable, just go back to focusing on the head of the penis!
Don't force yourself to really take it in, just go slowly and get used to how it feels sliding in and out of your mouth. If you find yourself gagging or uncomfortable, just go back to focusing on the head of the penis!
6. Do Try a Flavored Blowjob Aide
There are so many creams, gels, lubricants, and more available to try using during your next blowjob.
7. Don't Push Your Partner's Head Down
Unless you both have discussed this, and consented to it ahead of time, be sure to never grab your partner's head to push your penis in further.
8. Do Let Your Partner Know You Are Enjoying it!
It can be incredibly hot knowing you are turning your partner on. Little bits of feedback in deep breaths, moans, or just telling them it feels good can bring the two of you closer together.
9. Don't Time Yourself
Just focus on your partner's mouth and your own pleasure. If you finish quickly, don't worry about it!
10. Do Tell Them When You're About to Cum
If you are about to orgasm, letting your partner know will encourage your partner to continue doing whatever rhythm or trick they are doing that you enjoy that is bringing you to climax.
11. Do Communicate: Spit or Swallow?
We encourage couples to communicate with each other completely prior to consenting to any sort of sex, but sometimes you aren't sure how to ask. If you aren't sure what your partner would prefer to do when you are ready to cum, try to ask them by using it as dirty talk.
Try saying something like, "You are so good, you're going to make me come. Where do you want me to come?"
Try saying something like, "You are so good, you're going to make me come. Where do you want me to come?"
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As a bisexual male giving head and getting head is one of the best things before having sex enjoying every stroke and throbbing of his cock in your mouth before he cums is amazing and satisfying
I totally enjoy when a man’s cock touches the back of my throat and the thrill of the cum sliding down my throat. Us guys know how to suck dick too.
Blowjobs have been my specialty for years… since 16 yr young! LOVE sex now that I’m a widow and loving Too Timid gifts to myself! Finally living oral sex after babies… now barely 64 yrs and love giving head and get off while pleasuring moi Mek 💋
Great advise
Thank you
I love sucking a man, rubbing his balls and licking the head till he cums. The feeling of him swelling up and pulsating as he cums. It is such a huge turn on
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