The Graduate Guide To Advanced Sexual Positions: 13 Sex Positions to Test Your Strength & Stamina
Missionary, doggy style, cowgirl...all great sex positions, right? Definitely! However, what if you want to get out of the ordinary and into the extraordinary when it comes to sexual positions? How about getting a little WOW factor into your bedroom acrobatics?
Trying new positions is a great way to connect with your lover – and trying more “advanced” sex positions is a great way to have fun in bed, and find a position that will stimulate you in no other way. I caution you, these positions may take a little finagling to get into –but the reward is often worth the effort!
1. The Accordion
A total power trip position for the partner on top, the Accordion takes a bit of strength and a lot of flexibility. To do this position the penetrating partner lies on the bed or floor and brings their knees up as far as they can toward their chest. The receiving partner will then squat on top, aligning their thighs on the outside and lowering themselves onto the penis (or strap on dildo), holding on to their partner’s hands for support. Then, the receiving partner can lower themselves up and down to ride in pleasure. This is not likely to be a super deep penetrating position, but it's kind of like a role-reversed missionary, and it's fun and sexy to try!
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2. The Fusion
In the Fusion position, the penetrating partner will sit on the bed in a more relaxed position resting back on their hands (which are behind them on the bed) with their legs outstretched. The other partner will then scoot themself up to their partner walking belly-up on their hands (kind of like a crab walk) until they reach the penis. Then, they will insert the penis (or toy) and get even closer; raising their legs onto their partner’s shoulders while they lean back on their hands and raise their butt. They can then rest a little on their lover’s thighs and move back and forth onto them. This position creates a fantastic visual for both partners, as well as a really sexy, tight fit.
3. The Bangin' Booty
If your partner loves the look of your bum, then this position will be an amazing option for the both of you! The penetrating partner will sit straight up, their legs outstretched in front of them. The receiving partner then straddles them, facing their feet, and lowers down onto the penis (or strap on dildo). Then, carefully, they will extend their feet behind their partner and lie down so their stomach is on their partner’s legs and the bed, with their head towards their partner’s feet. Then, the other partner can massage their lover’s whole backside, back, and shoulders! What a view!
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4. The Superwoman
This one requires some serious strength and determination to achieve! The benefit? You can say YOU DID IT! To do this the receiving partner will kneel on the bed while the other partner enters in doggy-style. Then, the penetrating partner will grab them around the waist and move back while they use their abdominal muscles to hold themselves up while reaching behind to grab their partner’s arms. This will work much better if the standing partner can bend their legs a bit. If you can do this, you are a serious pro and can officially call yourself a sex position expert.
5. The Waterfall
This is a position that should be used toward the end of your lovemaking session because it will create an incredible orgasm for the penetrating partner! The giver will sit on the very edge of the bed (facing IN) with their legs as straight as they want for comfort and stability and the other partner will get on top in a more traditional position facing their partner, lowering down onto the penis. Then, with the help of their partner, the partner on the bed will lower their head and shoulders onto the floor (leaving the rest of their body on the bed) and the partner on top will lean back using their arms as support resting them on their lover’s knees (which also makes it harder for them to fall off the bed completely). Now, the person on top will gently rock and gyrate around while the blood flows to their partner’s head causing a tremendous rush when they orgasm!
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6. The Deep "V"
This is not a position that just any person can do, so if you can, DO IT! Your partner will think you are amazingly hot. To do this the receiving partner will sit on the table or a counter (like a bathroom counter) and the other partner will come right up to them. They then will take one leg and prop it up onto the standing partner’s shoulders and do the same with the other foot. So, essentially, they have folded themselves up into a tight “V” at the waist, and their legs also make a “V” around their partner. The penetrating partner will enter and pull themselves in and out of her while gazing into each other's eyes. This is a tremendously tight position that can be very intimate for those who can achieve it!
7. "X" Marks The Spot
To do this position the receiving partner will lie on their back and bring their knees together and up to their chest, crossing their legs at the ankles. The penetrating partner will then come up on their knees with their thighs firmly together. Then, they will pull the receiving partner onto their lap making sure their thighs stay together. The key here is to keep her legs firmly together. The partner with their legs crossed can grab their lover’s thighs for stability, if need be. This creates a super tight entrance and also allows a lot of pleasurable friction too!
8. Riding The Saddle
Getting slightly more complex, this position is a good one for those women who liked to be “controlled” by their lover. The woman lies on her side (either one) with one knee bent and pulled towards her chest, leaving the other leg straight.
The other partner gets between her legs from behind in a downward position. Then, the woman stretches out the arm that is on bottom and lays her hand on it, while the male pushes down on her shoulder to keep her in position, thusly immobilizing her other arm as well.
Being positioned this way allows for an interesting sensation during sex as the thrusts are more shallow, but can hit the G-Spot if he goes in just right. It is a wonderful position for light bondage play because the very nature of the position provided the “binding” experience.
9. ‘B’ is For Bedroom Fun
This position is a variation on another Kama Sutra position and requires a bit of strength and flexibility.
The man kneels upright so his body forms a backward “L” shape. The woman, lies on her back while the other partner enters her. Next, the giving partner pulls her back upwards so it's slightly arched. The receiver can bend her legs putting them on the givers chest while grabbing his thighs with her arms for stability.
At this point, the couples position resembles the letter "B".
This is a GREAT G-Spot position as well as a great Anal position. While the man has to be able to stay up on his knees while supporting the pressure of his lover pressing against him, he will gain a great view of her as well as his penis entering her vagina. This might not be the best “long session” position – but it does have a lot of reasons to try it – the G-Spot orgasm being one of the biggest.
10. The See-Saw
This position can be obtained by either starting in the “B” position or all on its own. This variation of the Kama Sutra’s “Cave” position is another interesting and fun one to try. The woman, once again on her back, allows her lover to hold her feet up and open while he kneels before her.
The receiver is entered by the giver, then bent backwards so her back is curved and her feet are by her head. He then leans over her, between her legs, so that he can look down at her face.
The reason this is called the See-Saw is because you can not do regular, deep thrusting, but instead must “rock” back and forth like a See-Saw to get the penetration. An intimate position, this position can leave women who are not “flexible” or who are a little ‘larger’ in the tummy region, out of breath and sore.
This position is definitely designed for those flexible gals who don’t mind being ridden!
11. Balancing Act
This position works best in a dining room chair – chairs can be incredible for positions such as the Lap Dance. This position, however, requires some flexibility and strength – as it is an advanced position. The man sits on the chair, with his butt toward the edge.
The woman climbs on top (facing him) as the partner sitting enters the partner on top. Then, slowly and carefully she puts one ankle at a time on his shoulders while leaning back on his knees for support. The sitting partner can hold her sides for support as well.
This position is a high friction position – where the fit of the penis into the vagina is very tight. It can be made tighter by her squeezing her thighs toward his face.
This is an erotic position where he can see everything that is going on, and she can look at his face while they are going at it. This position requires strength, but is well worth trying if you can get yourself into it.
12. Totally Bonkers
Again, using a chair, brace the chair up against a wall or door. The woman steps up onto the chair, the man coming behind her. She lowers her butt down onto his penis while leaning back against his chest for support. The giving partner holds the partner on the chair by their butt as they thrust up as the partner squatting on the chair bounces up and down.
If you find this position has him slipping in and out, she can open her legs more and kind of “squat” down lower. The reward is in the accomplishing – and the fact that you are both “totally bonkers” about sex!
13. Penile Implant
This position is FUN – and great for anal or vaginal penetration. Placing the chair on a secure surface and braced against something, the woman stands up on the chair and faces the wall. She bends down in a squat and her lover enters her from behind.
This position is great for those DEEP penetration moments; she can bounce, squirm, or buck up against him. He can hold on to her hips for a wild ride. Anally, this is a great position for both partners.
The wonder of this position is that the woman can open her legs more (in a froggy squat) or tighten them up. She can straighten her legs and bring herself to her lover’s mouth for before or during oral sex. He can penetrate her with his penis or with his fingers. Overall, this position is a great one for all sorts of fun!
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