How to Squirt With a Vibrator, Dildo or With Your Partner

Dying to know how to have a squirting orgasm? For some, this is considered the "Holy Grail" of orgasmic bliss. Typically associated with a powerful stream of liquid (this is ejaculate, NOT PEE), squirting is undoubtedly one of the most intense orgasms you can achieve. Watch below as one of our sex toy experts explains step-by-step how to have a squirting orgasm!

Now that you've seen our expert dive into the details of how to have a squirting orgasm AND you've learned that a glass dildo is the perfect g-spot toy, you can read on for even more information so you'll be armed with all the tips you need to achieve that infamous squirting orgasm!

Dual Ended Glass Dildo For Squirting

This Glass Dildo Massager is perfectly curved to rub your G-spot and build up to an explosive squirting orgasm! The firm, smooth material really is the best type of sex toy that we recommend to give you the stimulation you need for a squirting G-spot orgasm!

A Few Things to Know Before You Get Started

Our squirting tips can help you achieve the magic. However, there are some disclaimers that go along with this topic that I want to make sure you are aware of.

1. Yes, if you have a vagina, it DOES have a G-spot, but not everyone can have a full-on G-spot orgasm. Why is this? Well, not everyone's G-spot is as prominent as others, which can make it harder to figure out how to squirt when you orgasm. In many cases, some cannot handle the very intense feelings that go along with G-spot stimulation and give up before they actually have the orgasm.
2. Secondly, for those who CAN have a G-spot orgasm, not all will actually squirt out immense amounts of liquid. This is dependent on the person and a multitude of factors: hydration, how large the G-spot is (the G-spot is like a sponge, it contains the liquid. Smaller ones release smaller amounts of liquid), how well someone can handle the stimulation, and more. All of these complexities make each person's G-spot stimulation different. That’s a squirting tip to remember, and it’s worth repeating: every person is different.

So, in the manner of disclaimer, while these suggestions are helpful for learning how to have a squirting orgasm, they will not GUARANTEE that you (or your partner) will squirt. Whether you have sex with your partner or use a dildo or vibrator, an orgasm squirt is not guaranteed. However, these 5 methods have been proven successful for those who CAN have G-spot orgasms. Also remember: if at first, you don't succeed, try and try and try again! The worst that will happen is you will have some wonderful orgasms and a lot of fun. So relax and have some fun!

The #1 thing to remember is: you need to be sufficiently aroused! Your G-spot fills with liquid the more you stimulate it and the more aroused you are in general. So, give yourself many, many clitoral orgasms and stimulate your insides with sex, fingers, or toys! The more aroused you are, the greater your chances become! See below for the best tips on how to achieve a squirting orgasm.

5 Tips For Squirting With a Vibrator or a Partner

1. SQUAT AFTER STIMULATION

I know it sounds strange, but when pressure is put onto the G-spot, you have a greater chance of creating an orgasm. So once you are aroused — and I mean AROUSED — get yourself into a squatting position. This puts pressure on your vaginal area and your G-spot, which can help you learn how to squirt during your orgasm.

Then, reach up inside and feel for your spot (it should be 1-3 inches inside, on the TOP wall of your vagina). Once you feel it, rub it HARD! You need to give it a lot of firm attention. If you have a hard toy, this would be a great time to use it. Continually stimulate your spot until you start to feel a warm sensation like you have to pee. It may even be uncomfortable. That is okay, continue stimulating that spot. You will eventually feel a very, very intense buildup that is pleasure and possibly discomfort mixed into one. If you do not give up, you will feel a tremendous release and amazing pleasure and, if you are lucky, will also squirt!

2. USE A FIRM TOY OR VIBRATOR WITH A CURVE

Over the years there have been tremendous advancements in G-spot stimulating toys! Using a toy that feels comfortable to you is a can’t-miss squirting tip. People WANT to give themselves the elusive G-spot O, and I don't blame them one bit! What you are looking for in a good G-spot toy or vibrator is firmness and a curved end. These two aspects work together to help you get the angle and pressure you need. A standard dildo will likely not be firm enough for a squirting orgasm. A harder toy is needed to stimulate you with the pressure you need, and the curve on a tapered dildo is designed to easily massage your spot. We sell a few vibrators that specifically do this as well.

So, once again, when you get yourself aroused through any manner of play, you want to get comfy and insert your toy, looking for that feeling you get when you graze your G-spot. Once you reach that spot — STAY ON IT! If the toy has vibrations, turn them on! If not, continually rub that spot over and over and over until you feel the buildup described above. Not all toys work the same, so try to figure out what your body needs and give it a whirl. A strong, curved vibrating dildo could be just the toy to give you a squirt orgasm! Be sure to check out our best toys for squirting!

3. TEACH YOUR PARTNER HOW THEY CAN HELP

I know you have heard this before: the "come hither" motion is a tried and true method of stimulating the G-spot. However, you have to make sure you follow some simple instructions on how to give your partner a squirting orgasm, or your hither will not make them cum! First, make sure your partner is amply aroused. Stimulate them to the max, give them oral sex, have vaginal sex, use your fingers, make sure they're super aroused and give them many orgasms.

Then, once you are ready, get your partner comfortable on their back, insert your pointer and middle fingers into the vagina and feel for that spot (1-3 inches in, the top side of the vagina). Once you feel it, start rubbing it, hard, with your two fingers. You will feel it swell up under your touch. Give the clit some stimulation with your tongue or your other hand. When you sense they are becoming more aroused, press the spot HARD and do the "come hither" motion with your fingers.

This is important: DO NOT release the contact. You want to be forceful here, not light-handed. They may buck or squirm, but if they are enjoying it, hang on and keep on doing it! Now, push down on the pubic area (above the pubic bone, below the waistline) and sandwich the spot between your fingers and outside hand. Keep on with the pressure and the come hither motion. You may also want to try giving your partner an orgasm squirt with a dildo. Remember, this takes time. Life is not a porno film! Hopefully, with practice and patience, you will be rewarded!

4. SLIDE INTO DOGGY STYLE

For G-spot stimulation, a fantastic position is doggy style. This position puts extra pressure on the G-spot and makes it easier to stimulate, which can help you figure out how to give her a squirting orgasm. Once again, you want to make sure you find the spot, and once you do, keep on it. If you are using your penis, try to feel the spot with the end of it, and give it as much attention as you can.

If you cannot get the pressure you want from your penis, use your fingers. Being behind your partner gives you a good angle. Once you find the spot, press DOWN (because they're on their knees, the spot is now facing down) and put a good deal of pressure on the spot and rub your fingers quickly over it while pressing down. You can ask to rub the clitoris as well to give even more arousal.

5. KEEP THOSE LEGS BACK AND YOUR BUTT UP

All right, so sometimes it takes a little radical positioning to make things magical. This position is a favorite for helping the first time squirters club learn how to have a squirting orgasm. Have your partner lie on their back and place a pillow or two under their butt, forcing them up on an angle. Next, have them hold their legs back (preferably with knees bent) and open. This creates a sort of "tension" on the spot and makes the clitoris tight as well.

Now, insert either (a) a vibrator or hard toy or (b) your fingers into the vagina. At the same time, you want to stimulate the clitoris with a bullet sex toy or other vibrating toy. Have your partner keep their position and continue the stimulation. Once again, when you find "the spot," keep on it with hard, upward pressure! You want to rub the spot as hard as you can — almost roughly — and if you start hearing the telltale sounds, you know you are getting there. Keep it up — slow and steady wins the race to the squirting orgasm, and this squirting tip will get you closer!

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