Help Bring your Partner Orgasm During Oral!

Whenever there is a discussion on the “best” way to make a woman orgasm oral sex is always at the top of the list! Why? Simply, oral sex offers the most direct clitoral stimulation combined with an intimate experience that allows the woman to basically relax and concentrate ONLY on herself (69s excluded). Of course, there is a bit more to it than that. Read on to find out exactly why oral is the best way to get your partner off!

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THE HEART OF THE MATTER

The woman’s clitoris is the absolute epicenter of her pleasure. While she can derive pleasure from other stimulations (nipples for example) the most direct route to her climax is by stimulation of her clitoris. Performing oral sex on her provides her with direct stimulation of her clitoris by your tongue (and often fingers too) which gives her the best chance at achieving ultimate pleasure and stimulation.

VARIATIONS ON A THEME

Oral sex is not a “one-trick” activity and often there are a variety of different techniques, pressures, speeds, and methods that are utilized during oral sex. For example, a slow and deliberate motion can be used to start, and then a faster and more direct stimulation can then take over. The tongue is a strong muscle (the strongest in the body) and because of this can provide a variety of different pressures during oral. The variety and the surprise of what techniques will be used can help keep a woman on edge and increase arousal.

SEXILY SLIPPERY

Obviously, during oral sex, there is a lot of saliva which provides a very slippery surface for the tongue to glide around. This provides a low friction stimulation for the woman and aids in clitoral arousal. Contrary to finger stimulation, which offers no lubrication, oral sex will provide ample natural lubrication. This can speed up the tongue’s back and forth motion and provide the speed needed for orgasm.

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LEGS SPREAD

Oral sex can be performed in many different positions, but more often than not, the standard, go-to position is a woman on her back with her legs spread. This particular position offers her relaxation and comfort but also one other very important thing – clitoral stretching. When a woman spreads her legs the vaginal region and clitoris become a bit stretched. This creates easier access to the clitoris and makes all the clitoral stimulation more effective. Oftentimes a woman can spread her legs (or even hold them apart) and move her hips to meet her lover’s thrusting tongue. This will greatly increase chances of orgasm.

LENDING A HAND

Even though oral sex is mostly a tongue event other parts of the body often come to the party – such as the fingers or even the nose! While clitoral stimulation is the most effective way to make a woman climax, adding in penetration such as with fingers (even just one) can definitely speed up the orgasmic process for many women. Not to mention the combination and variety of sensations that can be offered combining tongue sensation with finger sensation can place most women easily on the cusp of orgasm.

INTIMATE

Finally, oral sex is an extremely intimate sexual position. Allowing your lover to stimulate you with their mouth depends on trust and an intimate connection. Trust in general can increase a woman’s chance of orgasm with her partner, especially if she finds it difficult to orgasm in general. So whether oral sex is performed just on her or in a 69 position, the intimacy of the act can greatly increase arousal.

If you want to show her how much you care, oral sex is a great place to start. If you are new to oral sex, make sure you establish clear conversation through it all. Don't worry if you are nervous, it can be intimidating! Always ask for feedback, this is for her and if she isn't enjoying it - it's not beneficial for anybody! Take your time and show your partner how much you love her body! Practice makes perfect and soon enough you will have her cumming in no time!

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