3 Best Sex Positions To Give Her An Orgasm
- Missionary Man
- Ride The O
- Going D for the O
1. Missionary Man
If you think that missionary (man on top) is a ho-hum or vanilla position, it may be time to change your mind! While it is considered the most practiced position, there is a reason:
- Helps improve intimacy
- Allows you to achieve deep penetrative stimulations
- Provides internal and external sensations for intense orgasms
How it works:
The missionary position places the man’s pubic bone in a fantastic position for rubbing against her clitoris. The partner on the bottom can adjust their hips to thrust up into him to allow more friction.
The closeness of this position also allows for kissing and holding – which improves intimate connection with your partner during intercourse. The partner on the bottom can wrap their legs around the person on top, or, make them lax and limp so that her clitoris is more exposed.
Don’t brush missionary aside, take time to find the exact missionary position that feels best to you!
2. Ride To The O
When a woman takes control of her own pleasure she is more likely to have an orgasm. For many women, this means the reverse cowgirl position!
This position allows for:
- Deep vaginal penetration
- Shallow play
- Double penetration using a finger or a toy
- Simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation
How it works:
In this position she can take her partner as deeply or as shallow as she would like. She also can adjust her strides to a pace that suits her. She can rub her clitoris against him while she is in charge, enhancing her arousal and increasing her chance of having an orgasm.
For many women the reverse cowgirl position creates the optimal environment for orgasm!
3. Going D For The O
Who doesn’t love doggy style? Although this position might not be known for its benefits to female pleasure, doggy style is optimal for those who love deep strokes and G-spot rubs.
Why we love doggy:
- Achieve deep G-Spot or A-Spot orgasms
- Can place a toy over your clitoris to increase arousal for more intense orgasms
- Variety in positioning to achieve multiple stimulations
How it works:
With doggy style, penetration is deep – which is pleasing for both partners. The curve of the penis can stroke a woman’s G-Spot, so if she is a lucky girl and can orgasm from internal stimulation alone – this position is a must do!
If she wants to add in some clitoral stimulation while having sex all she has to do is reach between her legs and go to it, apply a sex toy, or her partner can reach around to press & tease it for her.
This position also offers options:
- Bending your head toward the bed changes the depth
- Spreading legs offers clitoral stimulation
- Closing legs together makes it tighter
Experiment and find out what works best for you!
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Reverse cowgirl is a position that’s guaranteed to bring both of us to a big O! She is multi-orgasmic so I make myself last and stay hard through all her favorite positions and O’s since I never know for sure when she’s done-done. But when she finally spins into a reverse cowgirl position, I know she is ready for her last O. She knows in this position she can make me explode regardless of how hard I try to hold off. There’s something about that angle that hits both of us just right. She also knows I’m at her mercy and she will for sure milk me dry at her will which is a huge turn on for her. She can tell when I’ve reached the point of no return and that sends her over the edge too. Both of us can watch the show in the mirrors next to the bed which adds a lot to level of intensity as we have simultaneous O’s.
For the 2 men above with a wife that is under performing. My wife of 23 years was a rock star when we were young. As we got older things slowed down. We would argue over it and go back to the same old. I found a naturalist Healthcare provider. A shitload of tests a lot of hormone tests. She gets a cream applied daily she gets a 3 part pill once a day. Once a week injection a small amount of testosterone. Yes woman has small amounts of this made in their body. After a month of this she thinks she is 18 again and trying to kill me. What a alway to go. There are 5 different hormones she is getting and worth every penny.
On the squirter question. The answer is yes, i feel that i have msstered the technique , ( with my hands and fingers) that guarantees to make any women squirt its all about ringing the doorbell! Now with that said a female must be totally compfortable with you and really willing to let go with no type of inhibition or shame. Its a quite beautiful thing to me that really gets me going!
About a year ago, I finally convinced my wife to try anal. She loves it sometimes that’s all she wants. I haven’t had any pussy in three months.😂😂😂
My wife and I have been married for 19 years with our share of ups and downs in the bedroom. But here the past couple of years sex has been almost non existent. And when we do get intimate it seems like it’s more of a choir to her than something enjoyable. I’ve tried to spice up the loving by introducing toys for her plaesure,to no avail. Now I’m just lost as to what to do NOW,or just quit trying all together? I’m 55yrs old and she is 43,is this the end?!?!?
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