9 Things She Thinks About While Blowing You

Oral sex. Giving Head. Blowjobs. Sucking his pipe. Oral ovations. Waxing his rod. Whatever you call it, giving your man a blowjob should be one of the most erotic parts of your sexual endeavors! Guys, do you ever wonder what we women think about while we are down below giving you all those tingly feelings? Well, here is a sneak peek into the mind of a woman while she is orally attending your penis!

1. NOTHING COMES TO MIND
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I think that for some women, they sort of get into a rhythm and it is more of an auto-pilot type situation for a while. There is a certain pace of sucking, licking, rotating the tongue, using the hands. Suck. Lick. Twist. Deep throat. Tease. Repeat. When we are in the heat of it, knowing what we are doing is successful, we can tend to sort of just zone out to the motions of it all until we want to change the pace or the result.

2. DOES HE LIKE THIS?
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Women can be insecure about giving head because, contrary to popular belief, you CAN give a bad blowjob! So, at times we think, “Am I doing this right” or “Is he enjoying this?” Especially if you are the type of guy who sinks into the pillows and just goes along for the ride! We like (and need) to know that we are pleasing you and that you are truly enjoying what we are doing. If we don’t know, we may come up from down below much sooner than you would like us to – so share the joy of your excitement!

3. WOW HE IS GETTING BIG
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Oral sex gives your woman the opportunity to see your penis up close and very personally. Oftentimes, there is a moment of surprise at how big and hard it can really become! It literally comes to life in your mouth and hands which is a completely thrilling experience to have! Thinking about how big it is during oral sex is a completely normal thing to imagine during the act.

4. AM I GOING TO MAKE HIM CUM?
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Whether you are TRYING to make you man cum or not, the thought will ultimately pass through your mind at some point. If the goal is to go to orgasm you may wonder how close your man is getting to his climax. If this is foreplay only, and you want to move on to sex, you may ponder whether you are bringing him too close to come back from the precipice! Learning the mannerisms of your man prior to orgasm can help you with this distinction.

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5. SHOULD I SWALLOW?
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Believe it or not, to swallow or not to swallow is a common thought that goes through a woman’s mind while she is giving head. If it is the first time with that partner the thought may be more prevalent. Wondering if she is expected to swallow can be another thought. As the moment to decide nears, she may actually not have a chance to decide.

6. IS HE GOING TO RECIPROCATE?
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If the woman has taken her “turn” first when it comes to oral sex, she may be wondering if he is going to reciprocate with oral on her, or just go right to sex, or cum in her mouth. Women know that once a man orgasms that sometimes play ends (sorry guys, but that refractory period is a fact of life) and we may be worrying that we won’t get to have our fun too.

7. HOW CAN I MAKE THIS BETTER?
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Giving a blowjob is not a one-size-fits-all experience and women like to figure out what buttons we can push to make your oral experience the absolute BEST! Should we suck harder? Do you like it when we also use our hands? What about a twisty motion, how does that feel? We are wondering if you are liking the new moves we are trying and we look toward your movements and verbal cues to figure out if you are enjoying what we are doing and what new tricks are getting a reaction.

8. WHAT TECHNIQUES CAN I TRY?
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As I mentioned, oral sex is not one-size-fits-all and there are a lot of different techniques that can be used during. My boyfriend says that he likes to vary the techniques as well as try new things from time to time to see how I react to it. He said that often he thinks about which move to bring out depending on my reactions and if he should add more or less tongue or fingers. The goal is to please and you have to give your lover a little different routine every so often!

9. DO I HAVE TO DO THIS LONG?
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OK, so there are women out there who really do not enjoy giving oral sex as much as others, and, perhaps even DETEST it. Yes, I said it. Don’t act like you aren’t out there, you know who you are. Some women may give their man a blowjob but it doesn’t mean she actually likes it. When with this attitude often wonder how LONG they have to suck him? How long is long enough? It is sad, really, but it is truthful!

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