Dildo vs Vibrator: 6 Differences That Will Help You Choose What Toy is Right For You

The terms “dildo” and “vibrator” are frequently used interchangeably, almost as if they are separate semantics for the same device. We are here today to put to rest this debate!

A dildo and a vibrator are similar, but they are most definitely not exactly the same. So here's the question...dildo vs vibrator...how do you decide whether a dildo, a vibrator, or both are right for you? Below is a comprehensive guide through 6 different concepts to consider when learning the difference and deciding what is best for your sexual play!

1. Purpose:

Both dildos and vibrators are created for penetrative sexual pleasure (usually vaginally), but vibrators can be used for clitoral stimulation as well.

Vibrators: Vibrators provide a super stimulating experience by combining penetrative pleasure with a sensory pleasure- vibration. Oftentimes vibrators are dual actions – meaning they provide internal and clitoral stimulation at the same time. With a variety of pulsation and power choices, vibrators have many more options for stimulation possibilities over a dildo.

Dildos: Dildos are more for penetrative pleasure. Dildos typically mimic a penis in shape and are used to provide the internal stimulation as a penis would. Some dildos can be double penetrative, meaning they allow you to insert the toy anally and vaginally at the same time. Ultimately, a dildo is meant to fill the vagina in the way a penis would so most of the time dildos do not vibrate because real penises don’t vibrate.

2. Shape & Form:

Both dildos and vibrators can have “penis-like” characteristics; however, vibrators have much more variety than dildos.

Vibrators: Vibrators come in a variety of shapes from sleek and simple to penis shaped to downright futuristic looking! In fact, some dual action vibes can look like rabbits, butterflies, or even flower petals.

Dildos: Conversely, dildos emulate important characteristics of a penis more accurately than a vibrator, such as size, shape, and texture. For instance, some dildos contain veins, balls, and even be of varying skin tones. We also have thick dildos while others are simply phallic shaped but come in smooth and vibrant, colorful options!

3. Vibrations:

The number one difference between a dildo and a vibrator is that vibrators, well, vibrate. While there is a bit of crossover (some dildos vibrate), but ALL vibrators vibrate. Make sense?

Vibrators: There are so many variances in vibration possibilities with a vibrator. You have a standard vibrator that may have only one setting for vibration or multiple speeds from low to high. Some offer different settings or patterns from constant vibration, to intermittent, to pulsation. Dual actions offer clitoral vibrations AND internal vibrations simultaneously. The key thing with a vibrator is: it will vibrate in some way, shape or form!

Dildos: Standard dildos do not vibrate, and often feature a suction cup base for hands-free play. However, there are dildos that have vibration functions! These are considered vibrating dildos, rather than being labeled as vibrators.

4. Materials:

There is actually a lot of crossover between dildos and vibrators when it comes to materials.

Vibrators: Vibrators are often made of a more pliable and flexible material, like jelly or silicone. This material facilitates and enhances the pulsations and vibrations it is designed to perform, those materials being thin enough to allow vibrations to flow through.

Dildos: A dildo must be considerably firmer to emulate an erect penis. A flaccid dildo is of no use to us; we want a nice, stiff shaft to get us going! Because dildos do not have to consider vibrations, they can be constructed from silicone or another more rigid material. A glass dildo offers an ultra firm, smooth and stimulating touch. You can also experiment with jelly dildos for a more flexible feel.

5. Stimulation Possibilities:

Both dildos and vibrators offer a variety of stimulation methods from internal stimulation, to clitoral stimulation, to G-Spot stimulation.

Vibrators: Since many women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm it seems likely that if you are looking for “a one-stop shop” type of toy a vibrator would be the option for you because it, well, vibrates and gives great clit stimulation! Special G-Spot vibrators can help with stimulating your G-Spot to give you that amazing G-Spot orgasm. And for the best of both worlds, dual actions provide internal AND external arousal simultaneously!

Dildos: Dildos can be great options for internal arousal because they come in a variety of sizes from small to extra large. Traditionally they offer a variety of firmness as well. Plus, dildos are definitely a good choice for anal stimulation (as long as it is made for anal play). If you're looking for hands free stimulation, you can use a thrusting dildo to do the work for you. Many dildos can be helpful in G-Spot stimulation because they can be made with a 'curved' end that will not bend under pressure, which is excellent for G-Spot stimulation. Also, most dildos are made with suction cup bases for use with strap-on harnesses for lesbian loving or other types of strap-on play!

6. Cost:

There is a very wide range of prices for both vibrators and dildos depending on options, materials and functions.

Vibrators: Vibrators can be super inexpensive (such as a basic vibe) or very expensive for models with all the bells and whistles. Vibrators have so many options now that they can be upwards of $200 for the most expensive, luxury models on the market. Think superior silicone, rechargeable, etc. Are they worth it? Well, any toy that can make me orgasm in under a minute is definitely worth a higher price tag in my book, and you can find a mix and match of all of the features in a variety of prices to find the best fit!

Dildos: Dildos are usually less expensive than a vibrator. Because they have no “moving” parts or motors, there is a lower price tag attached. Of course high end dildos which are made of silicone can be a little more pricey, however, it's worth it because they usually will last for many years.

But, Which One Should I Get?

The question remains: which one should you get? That is subjective, so instead ask yourself a personal question: what do you like? Are you looking to achieve a G-Spot climax, or do you orgasm better when experiencing the sensation of a real penis?

Then, treat this like an orgasmic a la carte line – consider getting a dildo for insertion and a small vibrator for clitoral stimulation! Sexual play is just that: play. Play is self-discovery, so try to find a toy that looks appealing to you, or one that upon looking at it makes your body tingle and toes curl. Try one, try them all – but please – TRY!

Don’t be left out of the pleasure zone; TooTimid.com has new, innovative vibrators and dildos coming out every month! Check out these top three vibrators and top three dildos currently in our online store.

Our Top 3 Selling Vibrators:

The Paris Nubby Clit Stimulator is our #1 selling clit massager for a reason. Its soft, raised ticklers and intense vibration settings will tease your clit, driving you directly into an intense orgasm. You can cycle through seven different vibration functions to discover what builds you up and what sets you off.

Another fan favorite is the Butterfly Kiss Dual Action Vibrator. For our beginners, this dual-action vibrator offers simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation set to make you scream for more! It is a best-seller in that the size is perfect for beginners while facilitating strong enough vibrations for experienced users.

Our Lust Silicone Wand provides the intense vibes women crave, concentrated in the smooth head of this wand to allow for holding right against your clit when needing a quick orgasm. It's silicone construction makes it hypoallergenic, easy to clean, and waterproof for wet, slippery fun!

Our Top 3 Selling Dildos:

The RealSkin Suction Cup Dildo is our #1 selling dildo on TooTimid.com, which also comes with vibration settings. Coupled with it’s realistic feel, once it is inside of you, the RealSkin material sensually warms to match your body temperature. With it’s suction cup base and waterproof capabilities, stick it to your shower wall and take it for a ride!

Next up, is our Curved Suction Cup Dildo. This is a top seller for an obvious reason: the curved tip created specifically to hit your G-Spot during those wild riding sessions! Hands-free G-Spot stimulation is made possible with its suction cup base, which can easily be attached to a wall for solo play or a harness if you've got a play partner.

Last, but definitely not smallest, is out XL Cinnamon Dildo. This toy has some serious girth to it, so be aware that it's going to fill you to the brim. Constructed with authentic real-feel material, stimulation is guaranteed with this large, hard shaft. Additionally, this toy has a suction cup base and is great for hands-free use.

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