7 BJ Tips Everyone Should Know
Giving head. Going down. Oral loving. Blowjob. Oral sex is a healthy and natural part of a healthy sex life. You may already be great at performing a BJ, but if you are curious about how to amp up your blowjob, here are 7 BJ tips EVERY woman (or man) should know!
1. GO SLOW AND AVOID THE PENIS
There is this special moment right before a blowjob where your mouth will be down between your partner's legs. Your hot breath will be teasing their thighs and balls. Take your time down there. Lick the inner thighs. Run your fingernails gently up and down the belly, around his penis, down the thighs, and up over their balls. Make a kiss trail from the belly button and down to right where his penis is attached to the body. Make. It. Last. Go S L O W and make your partner wait for the moment when you make contact.
2. VARY HOW DEEP YOU GO
Once you finally do get your mouth on the penis, don’t go all the way down. No, keep with the slow tantalizing routine giving every millimeter of the penis special attention. Suck and lick just the head. Around the glans (the mushroom top or just the tip if they are uncircumcised), over the hole, flicking your tongue on it, then slowly down one side only with your tongue, then back up the other side. Gradually repeat this process going deeper and deeper into your mouth until you have finally gotten him all the way down. This very slow and deliberate caressing of his penis will make the wait worth it and will keep him guessing on when you are going to start to really please him.
3. BALLS MATTER
Ladies, his penis is important but his balls are not to be forgotten! A man’s balls are super, super sensitive and often will give him extreme and intense pleasure if you touch them, lick them, tickle them, or in any way stimulate them. The balls should be a major part of your blowjob. When you are kissing up and down his shaft don’t forget to caress his balls with your mouth. Get them wet. Put them in your mouth. Caress them with your fingers. While you are caressing his penis also be gently pulling on his balls, teasing them.
4. MAKE IT WET-N-MESSY
Blowjobs should be messy. Slobbery, spit all over, drooling, frothy – MESSY. The more spit and drool there is, the better the blowjob will be! Seriously. This is not a time to worry about getting your sheets wet or wondering if you look ridiculous with frothy saliva coming out of your mouth. Trust me, you look HOT and it feels even better. Not to mention the wetter the better as far as sensations go. Saliva is nature’s lubricant, and a good blowjob has A LOT of it!
5. USE YOUR HANDS
A blowjob is not just for your mouth and tongue. A blowjob is for you to stimulate your man and to do that proper, you need to utilize your hands as well. The key to an over-the-top blowjob is to make him feel like his entire penis shaft is being stimulated at the same time. When you combine the licking and sucking action of your mouth, with the saliva and frothy spit you should be producing, with some nice, rotating hand stroking he will feel like there are 3 women pleasing him at the same time. Now THAT is talent.
6. DEEPTHROATING
OK, I know, you don’t think you can do it. Maybe you can; maybe you can’t. However, you will never know until you try. Not to mention it feels really good to him if you take him deep into your mouth. If you can’t get him DEEP down your throat, at least try to get him down a little further. Your mouth is warm and wet. The further into your mouth he goes, the warmer and wetter. If you can’t get him down far, you can create the illusion of this by using both your hands to surround him in warmth, then the breath from your mouth will still encircle him. Either way, it is definitely worth trying to learn to do.
7. VARIANCE
A blowjob is not the time to do the same thing over and over – WITH THE EXCEPTION OF WHEN HE IS ABOUT TO CLIMAX. During the main portion of the blowjob try to vary the techniques. Make sure you are using your hands to their fullest potential, varying where you are sucking and licking, change the way you use your hands – gentle strokes, fast strokes, and circle strokes. Use your tongue in different directions and rotate your hands in opposition. Keep him guessing about where you are going, what you are going to do next, and how you will pleasure him. The more he is unknowing, the more amazing it will feel.
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